Writing has paused
Hello, Sweet Dears!
Just a quick note to say, while I love writing, I don't have as much time for it these days. But as I run like hell when I arrive at a site and see no-updated posts, I wanted to explain at least that while nothing new is pending,
Hopefully, you'll find some healing or inspiration in an older post.
Blessings to you,
Well, I didn't see that coming
On Friday evening, my divinely guided friend, Patty Lennon was helping me process something.
I was questioning & in fear about whether or not I was making a big enough difference in the world.
If my work matters?
Would I get to the end of this life and feel good about what I'd accomplished?
If my ancestors and future generations would be proud?
Patty, who regularly has conversations with Beings who are not in physical form, told me that a group of angels said I was doing a good job.
Okay, the message was kinder than that, but I'm allergic to people saying nice things about me, so my brain shut down, and I don't remember the specifics.
I replied, "Yeah, yeah, that's nice, but I want a letter. I want a performance review I can read".
Basically, I wanted the impossible and I didn't expect to get it...
Did I ever tell you I had a miscarriage?
Miscarriages aren't widely advertised 'round these parts.
Which is why I had to find on my own that there's something called 'missed miscarriage'.
I only know because I had one.
A missed miscarriage or silent miscarriage is when the "pregnancy is no longer viable," but your body doesn't know that, so it just keeps on tending to that lost life as if one day she'll be born.
I was about ten weeks along.
It's still really hard not to add the qualifier- only.
Simple ways to Honor the Ancestors
It's that time of year again!
When the veil thins between this world and the next... offering us the gift of more easily sending our love to our friends and family who have died in this place and reborn in that other place.
While many cultures have rich customs for ancestral honoring, If you grew up orphaned from your motherland and the culture that shaped your ancestors, you may be starving for this type of soul nourishment.
Below are some ideas that anyone can explore as ways to reach out and offer gratitude and adoration.
Whatever you choose to do, make it authentic and intentional.
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No, you don't need to climb everest
As we wrapped up our spring Sacred Nature course, students were surprised at how deeply they could connect with nature right in their backyard.
I get it!
There’s an assumption floating around that in order to have heart-swelling, spiritually orgasmic experiences outside, one must wander out into the vast wilderness, hiking miles a day, surviving on dirt and drinking dew on blades of grass.
While I won’t deny I’ve had miraculous moments far away from civilization, my most meaningful experiences happened right in my suburban garden.
This is made possible because of consistency—you’re more likely to develop a familial relationship with a patch of Earth you visit every day, than with a place you only visit once in a lifetime.
Think about it this way...
Easy ways to boost your outside time
Did you know...
According to a recent study, The Nature of Americans, 75% of American adults said their interests in nature are among the most enjoyable things they do.
But in the same study, over 60% of those same adults reported spending five or fewer hours per week outside in nature.
That’s about 42 minutes a day doing their most enjoyable thing.
(💔 This makes my heart so sad)
Most of the 5,550 adults participating in the study from across the United States also were aware that exposure to nature is important to their physical and mental health, as well as fostering important community connections.
✔️ nature makes them happy
✔️ nature makes them healthy
🤔 But they’re only spending 3% of their day outside.
Time is an absolute bitch.
What a bitch, amirite.
There's never enough, and it only seems to speed up with age.
A question I hear a lot about time is:
"How can I make time for practices for peace and connection when…
... I'm so busy."
...I don't even have time for what I need to do, let alone what I want to do."
or the crappiest of all...
"How can I make time for practices for peace and connection when I tell myself I'm not important enough to take time for."
While we can't ignore that our physical existence has an expiration date, I've found that my perception of time has changed wildly, from feeling anxious to expansive.
This is partly due to the wonderful spell cast while out in nature, making time feel elastic. Moments deeply immersed in my senses and fully embodying the present stretch moments into lifetimes.
It's super important to remember that practices that help us connect with ourselves and the Earth and decrease our stress don't need to take hours to be effective!
For example, I schedule time in the morning for a 10-minute gratitude ritual in my garden and then take one or two other brief nature breaks around lunchtime time and late afternoon.
My expansive view is also due to mindset shifts that affect how I choose to spend my limited time. Little encouraging pep talks remind me of my value and that making healthy choices for myself has ripple effects that benefit my relationships.
Below are my personally-tested mantras to help you reclaim time to fill your cup by helping you overcome every "oh, but I couldn't possibly."
Would you walk into a room full of people and ignore them?
Not make eye contact?
Not introduce yourself?
Just pretend sentient beings are not occupying the same space as you?
My guess is no, you would not do that.
If you have social anxiety like me, it may be challenging and awkward, but you'd still acknowledge the presence of others. Yes in part because it would be rude and even moreuncomfortable to not say something.
But also because humans are wired to connect- and not just with other humans. With any ensouled being like the Earth herself.
A word i never knew i needed
Has a word ever punched you in the soul?
That’s truly the only way to describe what happened when a friend said this word: Hiraeth.
It wasn’t the word itself, but when they defined it, it was as if I'd always known what it meant but forgot.
Hiraeth is a Cymraeg (Welsh) word that, like so many words, doesn’t directly translate into English.
My friend described it as a longing for a home your soul has never known.
And according to Samantha Kielar of Penn State University, it translates to something like...
childhood trauma & nature
I’ve had a lot of conversations with folks about their childhood relationship with nature.
So many, myself included, sought safety outside from a chaotic home life. For some, it was physically safer there, out of arm's reach from abusive family members.
For others, nature was a place where they couldn’t be micromanaged, criticized, or verbally abused.
Regardless if you were running away from something or towards it, as children we knew the secrets.
When the constant pursuit to do more leads to overwhelm and anxiety, it’s easy to find yourself feeling disconnected, exhausted, and missing the juiciest parts of life. For over 17 years, Lynn has been guiding people to reconnect with nature and ceremony, allowing them to reclaim a sense of purpose and embrace peace.