a weekend of ceremony
Author Stephen Jenkinson says “Orphans are not people who have no parents: they are people who don’t know their parents, who cannot go to them. Ours is a culture built upon the ruthless foundation of mass migration, but it is more so now a culture of people unable to say who their people are.
In that way we are, relentlessly, orphans.”
This is me. I am a cultural orphan.
In that way we are, relentlessly, orphans.”
This is me. I am a cultural orphan.
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Raised by parents who’s people lost their traditions & ceremonies generations ago- raised on land that was taken from others, who in turn, were persecuted for their traditions.
When this struck me, it left me enraged and grief stricken. As a way to fill the void of absent ceremonies, I dove into learning about how indigenous peoples all over the world conducted ceremonies, rituals, and initiations. However, while beautiful, those traditions are not of my lineage. I was not shown them with sanctioning to practice them. Nor do I feel in integrity doing so. And yet… Ceremonies are a vital part of our human experience. They're the cord that connects our humanity to spirit. They serve as a threshold between life stages. Help us connect with the cycles of life; giving us a way to grieve our deaths and celebrate our births. They also offer us a way to build strong, vibrant communities. |
Participating in ceremony & ritual offers a path to healing for both ourselves, as well as for our wounded culture.
But how can a group of orphans participate when the traditions of their people have been lost?
I believe the answer is to do what our great-grandmothers did - look to nature for inspiration & guidance.
When we use the earth as our template, while holding intentions of love & healing, we can create ceremonies that feel authentic to who we are.
Women have been sitting in circles, holding ceremony, & facilitating rites of passage since the beginning of time.
You know what to do. You just need loving support, patience, & some tools to start again.
But how can a group of orphans participate when the traditions of their people have been lost?
I believe the answer is to do what our great-grandmothers did - look to nature for inspiration & guidance.
When we use the earth as our template, while holding intentions of love & healing, we can create ceremonies that feel authentic to who we are.
Women have been sitting in circles, holding ceremony, & facilitating rites of passage since the beginning of time.
You know what to do. You just need loving support, patience, & some tools to start again.
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"Learning how to create ceremony has been transformational. Finding depth & meaning to that which is all around us, is a beautiful journey. Lynn is a phenomenal teacher whose light & energy makes you feel held & supported." -Leigha May |
2020 Retreat details
When & Where |
Friday May 1, 2020 at 5pm - Sunday May 3, 2020 at 1pm
Location TBD, N.Y. This is a small group experience. |
Together we'll |
Explore the 5 essential components while performing a wide variety of ceremonies including a: Grief Honoring Ceremony, Threshold Crossing, & Croning Ceremony.
Last time we also spontaneously co-created a beautiful Divorce ceremony & a Sunrise Ceremony! |
You'll gain |
The skills & the confidence to design YOUR OWN meaningful & authentic ceremonies for yourself and others; for example birthday celebrations, grief ceremonies for a death, miscarriage, or infertility. And rituals to honor an end or beginning, like a new job, marriage, or menses.
Once you learn the process & design elements, the possibilities are infinite! |
I'll bring the |
Meals
Ceremonial supplies Magic |
You bring theBONUS TREAT |
Tent
Sleeping gear Enthusiasm A 30 minute private mentoring session after we meet, for support & feedback as you design your own ceremonies!
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Registration |
Registration opens January 2020
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YOu'll leave soul nourished, rejuvenated, & inspireD!
Frequently asked questions
What's the nearest airport to the program site?
The program will be held in Ward Pound Ridge Reservation in Pound Ridge, N.Y. The nearest airport is 30 minutes away, located in White Plains, N.Y (HPN). The NYC airports (LGA & JFK) are the next closest at 75 minutes away.
Does Ward Pound Ridge have running water?
Yes, the park has non-potable running water, showers, & flushable toilets. There are no electrical outlets.
I'd like camp on site, can I do that?
You bet! The site fee is included in your tuition. Just bring your camping gear and you're set.
I'd like to camp, but I don't have my own gear, what do I do?
There are two different options here. We can either check in with other participants & see if folks are willing to share with you, or you can pay a small fee of $45 to rent a sleeping bag, ground pad, & tent space from us.
This is a limited option so please sure you email Lynn when registering to make sure it's still available.
I'd rather not camp, can I stay off site?
Yes. We want to ensure that your needs are met and if not camping does this, we fully support you. We do suggest you to stay onsite for the full nature and community immersion experience.
What are over-night options for non-campers?
There are a number of nearby hotels in Mt. Kisco, NY, Armonk, N.Y., Danbury C.T., & White Plains, N.Y.
If you look into AirB&B options, there are plenty if you search; Pound Ridge, N.Y.
I still have questions, can we talk?
Yes of course you silly goose!
Click HERE to set up a Discover Call & I'll be able to answer all your questions. I won't bite.
The program will be held in Ward Pound Ridge Reservation in Pound Ridge, N.Y. The nearest airport is 30 minutes away, located in White Plains, N.Y (HPN). The NYC airports (LGA & JFK) are the next closest at 75 minutes away.
Does Ward Pound Ridge have running water?
Yes, the park has non-potable running water, showers, & flushable toilets. There are no electrical outlets.
I'd like camp on site, can I do that?
You bet! The site fee is included in your tuition. Just bring your camping gear and you're set.
I'd like to camp, but I don't have my own gear, what do I do?
There are two different options here. We can either check in with other participants & see if folks are willing to share with you, or you can pay a small fee of $45 to rent a sleeping bag, ground pad, & tent space from us.
This is a limited option so please sure you email Lynn when registering to make sure it's still available.
I'd rather not camp, can I stay off site?
Yes. We want to ensure that your needs are met and if not camping does this, we fully support you. We do suggest you to stay onsite for the full nature and community immersion experience.
What are over-night options for non-campers?
There are a number of nearby hotels in Mt. Kisco, NY, Armonk, N.Y., Danbury C.T., & White Plains, N.Y.
If you look into AirB&B options, there are plenty if you search; Pound Ridge, N.Y.
I still have questions, can we talk?
Yes of course you silly goose!
Click HERE to set up a Discover Call & I'll be able to answer all your questions. I won't bite.